The 4Fs that Guide Everything We Do Here.
Hello, Mom, and welcome to IfNot4Moms.com. My team and I are here to support you in building a strong, connected home.
Everything we do here sits on four foundational pillars we call The 4Fs: Family, Faith, Finance, and Fun.
…So you can enjoy the easier, breezier side of motherhood.
Family
Family is the heart of everything we do. I understand the early mornings, late nights, and the endless list of "little big things" that keep your home running. My blogs, resources, books, stories, and events are designed to be a gentle support, helping you build deeper bonds, create meaningful routines, and make family life merrier. I offer encouragement and practical ideas to strengthen the connection between every member of your household, no matter what your family structure looks like.
Finance
Money brings peace, stability, and confidence to the home. I am committed to helping your family stay financially healthy and growing through the financial advice my team and I offer. We are licensed financial advisors. We provide clear guidance—no complicated talk, no pressure—to help you plan for the future. We guide you step-by-step in protecting your income, preparing for your children's futures, and ensuring long-term security for you as parents. Our goal is to help you build a home where financial confidence and peace are a non-negotiable way of life.
Faith
I believe every family carries a light—a set of values, hopes, and an inner strength. At IfNotForMoms, faith is about nurturing that inner strength. My approach is warm and inclusive. I encourage. I share words that uplift, stories that inspire, and messages that remind you to trust that you’re doing better than you think. For me, faith is holding on to love, patience, integrity, and hope—the values that make a house truly feel like home.
Fun
Family life should be filled with joy, laughter, and unforgettable moments for everyone. Alongside my entertaining books for your loved ones, I share creative ideas to keep your family’s joy alive, fresh, and exciting. You’ll find simple bonding ideas, unique date-night suggestions for parents, and family adventures that spark new activities all year round.